Boys (and girls)

Some of my girlfriends have boys they fool around with. For months.
And that would all be great if those boys didn´t have longterm girlfriends.
All of us are advocating karma and we cant wait to see it all come back to us and hit us right in the head.
Those girls who do it, and me because I support it. Well, only one girl does it. The second one is good, and the third one also has a boyfriend but she’s in love with another one.
And the fourth one is Samantha from Sex and the city. But this is not a post about my girlfriends, rather then a post about guys who have a girlfriend but along the way seduce ten other girls.
Why do we still do it, if we know they are taken? Maybe their girlfriend is really sweet,
maybe they arent that bad of a person. And how do these girls then feel when they’re boyfriend
dosent answer the phone for the twentieth time, and when he comes back to bed with another girls perfume on him?

Why do we then allow ourselves to fall head over heels for a guy like that, when we know the same scenario could be waiting for us.
I mean, I still don´t know how these girls can let something like that happen to them and then still forgive the guy for I don´t know what time in a row.
How can they justify that? Would I do it like that myself?
It’s easy to always say ”I wouldnt take it that way”, but when love is one sided like this, as it is in most cases,
we would forgive almost anything. Then a day later would our friends say that we shouldnt have forgiven them,
and maybe a month or two later, maybe even a year, the same would happen to them.
Today I was talking to my girls and Ella is telling Maya what she has comming to her,
and Atea and me are supporting Maya because, well, you only live once and we think Maya had that on her sex list for sure.
She says ”name me Samantha in the blog, you know we are almost the same.”
And what should we have said to her. Other then that we agreed with her. She is the same as her, altough
she can fall for someone rather quickly.

Lets continue where we left off. There is also this one guy who is just really sweet, he will make you laugh and if you need help he will always be there.
He helped Samantha the same way to deal with a few little issues of hers, and get this: He has a girlfriend too!
And how then after all these guys, are we supposed to find one and trust that he wont do the same to us?
Just when we tought that we met someone like that, he suprises us.

Of course, all of these name are mixed up, because everyone knows who is Karolina, Ivana and Romana.
You know what you have to know right? The first likes beer, the second likes everything that Samantha likes, the third likes both boys and girls, and I love all three of them as they are.
And now guess which one of them is Atea, which one is Maya and which one Ella.
And they even turned me a little bad too!

I often hear from others that I have changed, that I always go out partying.
How should I explain to them that I didnt change as much as I have finnaly started living life as I should have from the begining.
Im always with my girlfriends (as you can see on instagram @lucialucija), we are enoying ourselves,
staying last in the clubs, we sing the loudest, dance the best, and we absoulutely dont care
that the guy five tables away thinks of us, because we realized, guys come and go, and we four are forever.

We are sending you hot kisses from the seaside!

 

 

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Neke od mojih prijateljica imaju dečke s kojima se zabavljaju. Mjesecima. I sve bi to bilo super da ti dečki nemaju curu već godinama. A sve smo mi zagovornice karme i jedva čekamo da vidimo kako će nam se to obiti o glavu. One što to rade, a ja jer ih podržavam. Dobro, jedna to radi. Druga je dobra, a treća isto ima dečka a zaljubljena je u drugog. Četvrta je Samantha iz serije Sex i Grad. Ali ovo nije post o mojim prijateljicama, nego o frajerima koji imaju svoju, a zavode još deset cura pokraj. Zašto mi to i dalje radimo, ako znamo da su zauzeti? Možda im je cura baš draga, možda te njihove cure nisu uopće za baciti. I kako se one osjećaju kad im se dečko ne javi na mobitel i nakon dvanaestog puta zvanja, i kad im se vraća u krevet usred noći sa ženskim parfemom na sebi?

Zašto si i mi onda dozvolimo da se zaljubimo u takvog frajera, a znamo da bi to čekalo i nas. Mislim, i dalje mi nije jasno i kako si one mogu dozvoliti da sve to opraštaju po ko zna koji put. Kako ga pravdaju same sebi? Zar bi to radila i ja? Najlakše je uvijek reći „ja to tako ne bih“, ali kad se dogodi ljubav samo s jedne strane, kako to u većini slučajeva biva, vjerojatno bi sve mi oprostile. Dan kasnije bi nam prijateljice rekle da to nismo trebale napraviti, a možda za mjesec, dva ili godinu, to bi se dogodilo i njima. Danas sam pričala sa svojim curama, Ella govori Mayi da će joj se sve brzo vratiti, Atea i ja podržavamo Mayu jer ono, jednom se živi, a i mislimo da je Maya to svakako imala na svom must sex popisu. Kaže „u blogu me nazovi Samantha, znaš da smo tu negdje.“ I što sad da mi njoj kažemo. Osim da se slažemo s njom. Skroz je kao ona. Samo si malo brže dopusti osjećaje.

Da nastavimo gdje smo stali. Tu također ima jedan dečko koji je ekstra drag, nasmijat će te, pomoći kada će trebati. Tako je isto pomogao Samanthi da se riješi svoje male krizice, i pazi sad: i on ima curu! I kako da nakon svih takvih momaka, nađemo jednog za kojeg ćemo vjerovati da to nama nikad ne bi napravio?  I baš kad pomislimo da smo upoznale jednog takvog, iznanadi nas.

Naravno, i sva su ova imena izmjenjena, jer svi znaju tko su Karolina, Ivana i Romana.  Što se mora znati, mora se, jel.  Jedna voli pivo, druga voli sve što voli Samantha, treća voli cure i dečke, a ja njih tri kakve god da jesu. I sad pogađajte koja je od njih Atea, tko je Maya i koja je Ella. I Čak su me malo i pokvarile!

Često čujem od drugih kako sam se promijenila, da sam stalno vani, i kako da ja njima objasnim da se nisam promijenila, nego da sam napokon počela živjet život kako sam oduvijek trebala. Stalno sam sa svojim curama (što možete vidjet i na instagramu (@lucialucija)), uživamo, uvijek zatvaramo birceve, pjevamo najglasnije i najbolje plešemo, i apsolutno nas nije briga što dečko za petim stolom misli o nama dok nas gleda, jer sve smo se složile, oni su prolazni, a nas 4 smo zauvijek.

Šaljemo vam vruće poljupce s mora!


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